Friday, October 10, 2008
I tot i have nothin more 2 write but at tis hr no one is ard 2 hear watever i got 2 say so i need 2 let it out somewhere. So here it goes..
Some ppl seems 2 like 2 ask abt Fairness... when we know nothin is fair in this world. Some r born rich while others r suffering somewhere. So is tat fair? Some ppl juz get watever they 1 n 2 some getting one thing is like a dream come true.. so u tink is fair?
If we know tat different ppl have different things n tat we r not born with the same capabilities, assets, frenz, IQ n all... so y the hell do we have 2 ask 'is it fair?!'
Lets do some QNS & ANS :
1)
QNS: So is going to a fren with ur problems n expecting ur fren wld help u out with a solution becoz someone else created the problem for u, fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Somethin 2 ponder: As a fren u'll always b there 4 each other. help one another coz tat's wat frenz r 4.
2)
QNS: U actually have a solution sorted out for ur problems. But u still insist for ur fren to come up wif a solution n hoping tat ur fren's solution will b some wat like urs so tat it will look as if u did not come out wif the solution coz u know its not a win-win situation n some ppl will not b happy wif it. Which means ur fren will get all the shit coz ur fren came up wif tat idea... is it fair??
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: A fren always try 2 help u all the way but r u tat kind of fren? If u r, how can u have the heart to put ur fren in tat position.
3)
QNS: Ur fren actually came up wif a solution but the solution is not like wat u wanted. So u start arguing wif each other n hoping tat that it'll lead to where u initially wanted it to go. So now u r arguing wif ur fren over a problem created by someone else. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: Y r u arguing wif ur fren? May b ur fren shldnt b involve in the first place. Shld juz step back coz its pointless n useless 2 wana help a fren who juz dont appreciate it.
4)
QNS: After the long arguement, u decide to go back to tat person who created the problem with the solution tat ur fren had suggested coz u sort of unable 2 win in tat argument. But of coz the other party is not happy so now.. u had a sour, awkward, n wat not kinda freindship wif ur fren. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: May b u shld b someone who is firm n able 2 decide n not mix the situation up. Dont mix the problems u have wif the arguements u had wif ur fren. N dont even argue wif ur fren since u came for help n ur dear fren is juz trying very best 2 help u out.
5)
QNS: U apologize for wat happened n ur fren is not talking abt it anymore n moved on. Juz tat ur fren didnt talk 2 u tat much bcoz ur fren never did from the start n u start having the thinkin tat ur fren is giving u the cold shoulder. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: Think watever u want.. coz it doesnt matter anymore
I didnt type my answer coz i tink its pretty obvious. U may wana answer the yes n no urself. If u have lotsa YES then i wish u all the best.
But i juz wonder y r u being so mean 2 ur fren? Y r u trying 2 b fair 2 others n not ur fren? So stop asking abt fair or not if u r unable 2 b fair urself. Its juz very contradicting.
So is it FAIR now?
