Friday, October 10, 2008
I tot i have nothin more 2 write but at tis hr no one is ard 2 hear watever i got 2 say so i need 2 let it out somewhere. So here it goes..
Some ppl seems 2 like 2 ask abt Fairness... when we know nothin is fair in this world. Some r born rich while others r suffering somewhere. So is tat fair? Some ppl juz get watever they 1 n 2 some getting one thing is like a dream come true.. so u tink is fair?
If we know tat different ppl have different things n tat we r not born with the same capabilities, assets, frenz, IQ n all... so y the hell do we have 2 ask 'is it fair?!'
Lets do some QNS & ANS :
1)
QNS: So is going to a fren with ur problems n expecting ur fren wld help u out with a solution becoz someone else created the problem for u, fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Somethin 2 ponder: As a fren u'll always b there 4 each other. help one another coz tat's wat frenz r 4.
2)
QNS: U actually have a solution sorted out for ur problems. But u still insist for ur fren to come up wif a solution n hoping tat ur fren's solution will b some wat like urs so tat it will look as if u did not come out wif the solution coz u know its not a win-win situation n some ppl will not b happy wif it. Which means ur fren will get all the shit coz ur fren came up wif tat idea... is it fair??
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: A fren always try 2 help u all the way but r u tat kind of fren? If u r, how can u have the heart to put ur fren in tat position.
3)
QNS: Ur fren actually came up wif a solution but the solution is not like wat u wanted. So u start arguing wif each other n hoping tat that it'll lead to where u initially wanted it to go. So now u r arguing wif ur fren over a problem created by someone else. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: Y r u arguing wif ur fren? May b ur fren shldnt b involve in the first place. Shld juz step back coz its pointless n useless 2 wana help a fren who juz dont appreciate it.
4)
QNS: After the long arguement, u decide to go back to tat person who created the problem with the solution tat ur fren had suggested coz u sort of unable 2 win in tat argument. But of coz the other party is not happy so now.. u had a sour, awkward, n wat not kinda freindship wif ur fren. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: May b u shld b someone who is firm n able 2 decide n not mix the situation up. Dont mix the problems u have wif the arguements u had wif ur fren. N dont even argue wif ur fren since u came for help n ur dear fren is juz trying very best 2 help u out.
5)
QNS: U apologize for wat happened n ur fren is not talking abt it anymore n moved on. Juz tat ur fren didnt talk 2 u tat much bcoz ur fren never did from the start n u start having the thinkin tat ur fren is giving u the cold shoulder. Is it fair?
ANS: YES / NO
Something 2 ponder: Think watever u want.. coz it doesnt matter anymore
I didnt type my answer coz i tink its pretty obvious. U may wana answer the yes n no urself. If u have lotsa YES then i wish u all the best.
But i juz wonder y r u being so mean 2 ur fren? Y r u trying 2 b fair 2 others n not ur fren? So stop asking abt fair or not if u r unable 2 b fair urself. Its juz very contradicting.
So is it FAIR now?
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Its been a week since Hari Raya Puasa. N it wasnt like wat i expected. Anyway will post pic soon after my outing wif frenz tis sat. Didnt really go out for visiting. Only went to 3 places and 2nd sis have open hse coz its Rian's b'day n i also went 2 shark's place.
Im really looking 4ward 2 the outing tis sat coz it'll b my very first real outing. Coz everytime i went out its only 4 a short while. Didnt really enjoy my hari raya tis year. :(
Went shopping wif BF yesterday. Bought 2 t shirt, a blouse, a jacket n a bag. OMG i really shop. Haiz... it hurts spending tat much thou.. hahaha but some say it a therapy. heeee.... Its sooooo gonna b a one time thing. I love my t shirt very much especially the gray one. weee....
At the moment im feeling very very very frustrated!!!! Firstly my hp is creating problems n secondly im soooo looking 4ward 4 2mrw but not anymore!!! Seriously, is it like hard 2 remember or wat?? Didnt i send sms at 6 plus??? n send it again at 8 plus??? n again at 9 plus?? So much 4 asking me 2 reach hm early so tat we can msn n talk abt 2mrw's plan. N im like one paranoid gal checking my hp everytime in case i got a msg or a miss call. I was so excited abt it. Really look 4ward.. I even check on the net 4 wat movie is available.. :'(
Guess wat?? im not goin anywhere 2mrw.
